Wednesday, November 11, 2015

Southern Charm and Warm Temps in November

Over the weekend, I was lucky enough to travel to Punta Gorda, Florida to attend my step-brother's wedding! It was gorgeous; his new wife loves glitter (like me!) and everything was punctuated with gold sparkle.



I came back from the whirlwind weekend away, and Tuesday got hit with a really nasty bug. I have been couch-bound for two days! I hate missing work and poms, but I guess this was my body's way of saying SLOW DOWN, OR ELSE!  It has given me some time to catch up on the most weirdly intriguing show, Chrisley Knows Best, during my time at home Tuesday and Wednesday.


But back to the good stuff: Florida!  The weather was amazing! My step-dad said the temperatures are currently about 10 degrees higher than normal. I'll take it!
This is helping me feel better! 

The wedding was outside on Charlotte Harbor

This location has the most breathtaking sunsets I have ever seen!


The fashion behind the trip:

When traveling somewhere tropical in the fall or winter, it is so much fun to bring out your summer clothes again. I wore Lilly Pulitzer for the rehearsal dinner and actual wedding-- how could you not? Don't feel obligated to adhere to the rules of northern colors/fashions. It is fine to be in your whites and brights for a weekend away in November!


Above: I wore Lilly Pulitzer for the rehearsal dinner at the Nav-a-Gator (so much fun if you're ever in Punta Gorda!).  Jack Rogers sandals were my go-to for pool-side events and the rehearsal dinner in the sand.  My mom (middle) is in a Black House White Market dress, on major sale, here!


Anna (above) also went with Lilly Pulitzer for Friday's rehearsal dinner. Anna and her husband, Shawn, are expecting a baby boy on April 21! (my cousin, Beth, and my husband's birthdays!). Here she is sipping a virgin Pina Colada in a Lilly shift dress. (Similar, here).

My uncle and I at the Nav-a-Gator in Punta Gorda!

Anna also chose Jack Rogers sandals to complete her look! 





My husband stayed true to the southern gentlemanly look with a gingham bow tie, linen pants (similar chinos) and linen sport coat for the ceremony and reception.  His shoes are Banana Republic wingtips.
My lip color was Stila in Amalfi pink!




My cousin, Ashley (above, middle), rocked a fabulous Anthropologie dress (similar here for an unbeatable price!). My sister, on the left, wore a dress from Mod Cloth (similar, here). Original, here, in different colors.

The scoop back of this Lilly dress was one of my favorite features. 

Going with the sparkly theme, I wore my gold wedding shoes (similar here, for $59! and here, higher wedge) and a Lilly Pulitzer shift dress for Saturday's festivities. Dress similar, here, in a fabulous royal blue.

The bride wore sparkly gold Jack Rogers sandals for comfort and glittery gold Christian Louboutins for the ceremony. Oooh, la la!

Met a fellow Lilly lover (above) who may also be a fellow Belle! She was applying to Saint Mary's as one of her top choices!
Kerry's dress, similar here.
This gentleman (above) totally won at Southern chic.
A red seer-sucker blazer and a METAL bow tie (our long-time neighbors back in Ohio owned Wendell August Forge, and they actually make an aluminum bow tie!).  Nantucket red chinos and a critter belt. 

We had an awesome trip and loved spending time with our family! The warm weather and sunshine can be so rejuvenating and healing. I can't wait to go back to Punta Gorda for spring break with my hubs.
My step-brother and his new wife (above) 
Anna, far right, in Jack by BB Dakota. 
Our family outside the church (above)
My mom (front, center) in White House Black Market (similar here). 
Shawn, left front, in a seer sucker suit from his sister's wedding. 



It was tough to return to the 40-degree weather that met us Sunday night in Chicago, but the sun has been shining all week, which makes Illinois much more manageable. :-)  Now I just need to get over my sickness!

Off to drink some more Emergencee,
xxoo
Mary

Tuesday, November 3, 2015

Holiday Gift-Giving Guide

Now that we have crossed the threshold into the month of November (cue the Christmas Pandora station!), it is time to start planning and thinking of a practical approach for gift giving. I have a very type-A personality (just ask my family! haha!), so I tend to have my gifts purchased and wrapped by December. Not only does it put my crazy mind at ease, but it is so wonderful to have wrapped gifts under the tree for the month of December.


Our tiny tree, last year, right before Thanksgiving ;-) and decking the drums!


Here are some gift suggestions and ideas for the most important people in your life.


Parents
Mom:
Let's face it, your mom deserves something luxurious. This monogrammed bathrobe from Mark and Graham will be a delight for your mom.



Additionally, as a stocking stuffer, this kitchen hand towel is probably my mom's favorite gift she has ever received from me. It reads, "OMG my mother was right about everything!" (She loves referencing THE towel!).


Another idea would be these darling idiom tote bags from The Initial Co. If your mom is anything like mine, she loves to use reusable totes for any shopping. Check out the cute sayings on these. Major bonus: two Saint Mary's College graduates (sisters!) created this company! I love to support my fellow Belles! Use code: BELLEONTREND for 15% your Initial Co. purchase until November 10! The website is FULL of fantastic gift ideas and SMC-related finds. LOVE!


Nora Fleming makes beautiful serving dishes that can be changed up every season with these little "doo-dads" (below) called minis. You buy a dish or serving platter, and you then can use the platters through all occasions and seasons by interchanging the minis. 
Each mini has a little tube-like structure that fits into a hole on the dishes. You could start a collection for your mom (or mother-in-law!)





Dad: It is fun for our dads to be able to recollect on their towns and where they grew up. These personalized map coasters from Uncommon Goods allow dads to reflect on their hometowns (or any location you choose) as they sip their drinks and think of what a good daughter or son they have ;-)



Additionally, any "fill-in" books for your father are really unique. This book would be something he would cherish forever!




Mothers and fathers-in-law:
It can be a little more difficult to shop for your in-laws because you likely do not know them as well as you know your parents and siblings. However, you always want to purchase memorable and thoughtful gifts for them! Here are some suggestions for the in-laws in your life.

Mark and Graham has some of most unique monogrammed and personalized items. These are ideal housewarming gifts, too, as they are made specifically for your recipient. This personalized wood tray is so fun for entertaining.
In addition, I am loving letter ornaments. To me, ornaments are a gift that "keeps on giving" as you can display them from year to year. It's so fun to take our ornaments out of storage each Christmas season and remember fondly who got us which ornaments. These whimsical letter ornaments are from Anthropologie's website. An idea would be to get the first letter of each child's name, grandchild and maybe even the first letter of the family's last name.



Siblings/ Brothers and Sisters-in-Law
I am lucky enough to have gained 4 brothers and 2 sisters through my sister's marriage and my own. For your "bonus" siblings, here are some fun ideas for Christmas gifts.

Sisters/Sisters-in-law: Alex and Ani bracelets (first, find out if she wears more gold or silver, and proceed from there). You can add to her collection or start one for her.  Each bracelet is so meaningful, and she will always think of you when she wears it! It is a stackable bracelet, so you can add to her collection with each holiday.

As another idea, this monogrammed tote bag makes trips to Jewel so much more glam! I love this for your sisters, particularly if they have acquired a new last name. Again, The Initial Co. just rocks for gifts! You'll want to buy yourself one, too!



Finally, this Kate Spade coffee table book is a new release.  You simply cannot go wrong with her darling book! It has cute etiquette tips and party-planning advice, and possesses the overall Kate Spade charm that we all know and love.



Brothers/ Brothers-in-law: Personalized beer mugs from The Initial Co.  The personalization of these mugs make them even more thoughtful.  Pair the mugs with a six-pack of beer from a local craft brewery. You'll be the favorite sister-in-law in no time! ;-)

Significant Other

Of course these will vary by person, but it is best to listen for hints throughout the months leading up to Christmas. If you live with your significant other, this is typically a simple task! Just keep your ears open. However, if you do not live together, or it's a newer relationship, sometimes the task of buying the perfect gift can be daunting. Tailor the gift to what your significant other really adores (aside from you, of course!). Perhaps his alma mater is very important to him. Scope the university book store's website if that is the case. Maybe she has recently gotten serious about exercising. If that is the case, what is better than fashionable workout gear?

Male:
A nice 1/4 zip pullover from your man's college is a great place to start.


I love the idea of planning a future event, too.  A craft beer fest or whiskey tasting in your town would be an exciting future gift to give (you could print out the ticket to the event or concert and wrap that). Then, Christmas doesn't have to end on the 25th!


There's nothing quite like seeing your man in a crisp new collared shirt, am I right, ladies? Look no further than this Vineyard Vines Oxford for a tailored look for your hottie.


Female:
This Lilly Pulitzer scarf would be perfect for anyone who calls Chicagoland her home! (There are designs of all things Chicago on the scarf!)
Tory Burch just came out with a line of workout clothing. How fabulous would your girlfriend/fiance/wife look in these spandex leggings?



It is fun to receive gifts that you wouldn't want to buy yourself.  I often tell Mike if he is stuck on a gift, I would love more Pure Barre classes!


Nieces/nephews/Goddaughters/Godsons:
Again, this will vary significantly by age, but I can provide some ballpark ideas (based on the ages of my adorable nieces and nephews and Goddaughter).

Girls:
What little girls don't love glitter? Sparkly Toms are a great option for mini gals. Your niece or Goddaughter will think of her very cool aunt or Godmother each times she glitters around in these Toms!


Boys:
Any Star Wars toys like this Star Wars Sorry board game. The new Star Wars movie comes out on December 18, so it is just in time to get the boys in your life excited! (And also the adult boys in your life, too!).



Tiny tots:
The Book with No Pictures by B.J. Novak, The Day the Crayons Quit by Oliver Jeffers or Press Here by Herve Tullet. These three books have been huge hits with the tiniest people in our life!
The Book with No Pictures creates so many laughs with your littlest family members. Check out B.J. Novak reading the book to kids! It's hilarious.



Gal Pals:

I have purchased this gift for two of my besties in the past, and they absolutely loved it. These latitude and longitude coordinate necklaces are so thoughtful and special. I met my bestie, Caitlin, at Notre Dame, so I used the coordinates of the University of ND on her necklace. I grew up with my bestie, Megan, so I used Boardman, Ohio as the coordinates for her necklace. This Etsy seller was prompt and wonderful to work with; I highly recommend this gift as a personalized piece for your girls!

Another fun gift for your girlfriends would be this Love state tee by the Initial Co. My college and high school girlfriends reside all over the country, and it would be so fun to celebrate their current or home state with this tee shirt! Always a conversation starter-- don't forget your roots this Christmas! 







Don't let the holidays be a time of stress for you! All you should be worrying about this holiday season is spending time with the people who are most important to you and thanking God for having those people in your life.  Embrace the idea of shopping early, leisurely and maybe even online! Alleviate any unnecessary hassles.  Use these ideas to get started!




Don't forget: shop The Initial Co. from now until November 10 with the code BELLEONTREND to receive 15% off your next purchase!  So happy to support my fellow Smicks!
xxoo
Mary 

Sunday, November 1, 2015

Belle On Trend's Current Obsessions

Hello and happy "gain an hour of sleep" day!

I wanted to create a quick blog post about my current obsessions. I am spying on these various items and lusting after them!  Saving my money and stacking my coups for future purchases...


1. The J. Crew bright-and-cheery-colorful wool coats found here.





The hardest part for me is going to be choosing a color! These cozy coats will help welcome winter to Illinois with much less of a sting!


2. This tartan blanket scarf.
I have seen so many people rocking this tartan print, and I can totally see why! The color scheme makes me think warm and fuzzy November/December thoughts. Additionally, you can pair this with blue, green, red, camel, cream, or yellow. It's a fabulous piece that will take me through the cold months ahead!


3. These gorgeous studded pumps.




I know I have talked about these fierce pumps in an earlier post, but I can't get over how comfortable they are! I purchased the nude and black, inspired by my friend, Jackie. These are by BCBGeneration, and they can be found online at the link above or at a DSW store. They are SO comfortable! I am having major FOMO about only purchasing the nude and black; I may head back for the glittery rose gold ones! Pair any of the above with a plain black or navy dress and tights, and you have a conversation starter! "Are they Valentino?"


4.  This glittery-glam wallet by Kate Spade.




The biggest conundrum would be deciding on a color! Imagine how many compliments you'll get when you pull that stunner out to pay for your beverage at the local coffee shop! I'm dying for these!



5.  The Maura Top (on sale!) from Camilyn Beth and the Black and Ivory Pearl dress also by Camilyn Beth.  Peplum, bows and tulle are three of my favorite things when it comes to fashion, and the Maura Top and the Black and Ivory Peal dress cover all my bases. I love black and white together for winter soirees-- my plan is to channel my inner Sarah Jessica Parker with the Black and Ivory pearl dress for New Year's Eve! My hubs is dying to wear his tux again from our wedding. Any suggestions on black tie functions in the burbs for NYE?


Furthermore, I cannot say enough about how wonderful my experience with Camilyn Beth was. I bought the Ivory Fresh Air dress to wear in my engagement photos and to my wedding shower.  

Engagement and wedding pictures by Blossom Lane Photography


With my sweet sister, Anna, and my darling friends, Jackie, Libby and Alison at my wedding shower

The customer service at Camilyn Beth was phenomenal. I was able to get quick advice on sizing, and they even sent swatches of color to me (for my bridesmaids) with the most beautiful, personalized card. 

My bestie, Mandy, in the Ampi dress, (in peach) for our wedding.



I hope everyone had a fabulous Halloween weekend!

xxoo
Mary